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Friday, January 28, 2011

( Is God dissappointed? @ 12:20 AM )

Is God disappointed?



Is God disappointed? Yes.



Is there forgiveness? Yes.

Romans 5:20b "... But where sin increased, grace increased all the more"

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Saturday, January 22, 2011

( Does God care about Good Works??? @ 1:32 AM )

This is a good video:
It's about 6+ mins. Watch on!



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Friday, January 21, 2011

( Godless, Godliness @ 12:24 AM )

2 Timothy 3:1-5
" 1 But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. 2 People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, 4 treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God— 5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people. "


Fantastically faking it

Let the significance of this for your church, your small group, your marriage, and your own soul wash over you. Our capacity for deceiving others, even deceiving ourselves, is great.

  1. You can be a lover of self, and it has the appearance of godliness
  2. You can be a lover of money, and it has the appearance of godliness
  3. You can be proud and arrogant and it looks like godliness
  4. You can be ungrateful, unholy, and slanderous, looking like godliness

We could say it another way:

  1. You can be a lover of self, and it looks like selflessness
  2. You can be a lover of money, all the while giving the appearance of generosity
  3. You can be proud and arrogant and it comes across as humility
  4. You can be ungrateful and unholy and it can masquerade as gratitude and holiness

And so on.



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Thursday, January 20, 2011

( Taken? Forsaken? Expectant? @ 9:00 PM )

This is a short clip taken from Taken.
Take a look at this scene. The story is about his daughter who was kidnapped while in Paris. He's on the phone with the kidnapper, whom he has no idea about his identity.


Why this clip?
When we see how the father promises to find the kidnapper no matter what, we know he will keep his word. Which he did, in the end.

What does it mean for us?
Jesus said these at John 14:1-3

1 “Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. 2 My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you? 3 And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.

Know for certain that He is coming back, if we are able to see a movie and believe that a character will do what he promises, will we not trust more in our Saviour who has proved Himself to us?

Eagerly wait for His coming

It’s been said that some Christians are so heavenly-minded that they are no earthly good.
On the other hand, it’s also the case that some are so earthly-minded that they are not fit for heaven.
- Justin Taylor

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Wednesday, January 19, 2011

( How can i be sure I'm saved? @ 10:57 AM )

One question that Christians will always ask themselves:
How can i be sure that I'm saved?
Read on and find out:


If we think the Bible teaches universal salvation, we may arrive at a false sense of assurance by reasoning as follows: Everybody is saved. I am a body. Therefore, I am saved.

Or, if we think salvation is gained by our own good works and we are further deluded into believing that we possess good works, we will have a false assurance of salvation.

To have sound assurance, we must understand that our salvation rests on the merit of Christ alone, which is appropriated to us when we embrace Him by genuine faith. If we understand that, the remaining question is, "Do I have the genuine faith necessary for salvation?"

Again, two more things must be understood and analyzed properly. The first is doctrinal. We need a clear understanding of what constitutes genuine saving faith. If we conceive of saving faith as existing in a vacuum, never yielding the fruit of works of obedience, we have confused saving faith with dead faith, which cannot save anyone.

The second requirement involves a sober analysis of our own lives. We must examine ourselves to see whether the fruit of regeneration is apparent in our lives. Do we have a real affection for the biblical Christ? Only the regenerate person possesses real love for the real Jesus. Next we must ask the tough question, "Does my life manifest the fruit of sanctification?" I test my faith by my works.

Taken from "Rejecting False Assurances" by Ligonier Ministries (used by permission).


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Monday, January 17, 2011

( Wallpaper @ 10:45 PM )

Hi all,

Wallpaper available for u all to use:

http://theresurgence.com/series/wallpapers

For those iphone/ipod users:

http://theresurgence.com/2009/11/01/scripture-wallpapers

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Saturday, January 15, 2011

( Obessed with Facebook? @ 10:20 AM )

Since we are on a media fast, let us ask ourselves these questions:
1. Are you spending more time with the computer than with people?
2. Do you set boundaries on how long you use the computer? And if you do, do you find that you can’t abide by your own boundaries?
3. When people ask you about how much time you're spending on the computer, do you lie to them about it?
4.
When you first see the media fast do you feel that unable to live without the computer/internet? During the media fast, do you have urges to go online (e.g. facebook) that you have to keep under control?


Be warned, this are signs of addiction to the internet!!!

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Are we too obessed with facebook? Take a look at it below:

Obsessed with Facebook
Via: Online Schools


And a second article to read:
From: http://www.challies.com/technology/700-billion-minutes

Seven hundred billion minutes. That’s how much time Facebook’s 500 million active users spend on the site every month. 700,000,000,000 minutes. Let that one sink in for a moment. Every month we spend the equivalent of 1.3 million years on Facebook; the equivalent of nearly 18,000 lifetimes. More than half of us login every single day; we average 130 friends. And we spend vast amounts of time on there.

Facebook now offers 900 million different objects or pages for us to interact with—groups, events, community pages, and so on. We upload over 3 billion photographs every month (which means we’re uploading millions every hour).

Do you know what really blows my mind about all of this? Facebook is only 7 years old. Most of us have joined in only the past 2 or 3 years. The growth charts are out of this world:


So think about this one. Four years ago most of us did not use Facebook at all. And today we are using it compulsively. A recent study of media habits found that about 1/3 of women between 18 and 34 check Facebook before they even go to the bathroom in the morning; 21% check it in the middle of the night; half of them admit that they are addicted to it. Meanwhile the older generations, those in their 40’s and 50’s, are also migrating to social media; they now represent the fastest-growing population.

But again, 4 years ago most of us did not use it at all. We may have heard the name, but it was just a name. Today it’s a way of life. What’s important to think about is the fact that Facebook is not a site that offers us a better way of doing what we were already doing. It’s not like most of us were on another social media site and we then migrated once Facebook came along (with young people being a possible exception; many of them migrated from MySpace to Facebook). For the majority of us, Facebook is a new thing. Those 700 billion minutes are not minutes that we’ve taken away from other online pursuits. They are minutes that we’ve taken away from real life. Studies show that time spent interacting online comes at the expense of face-to-face relationships and about at a 2:1 ratio. So every hour we spend on Facebook comes at the expense of 30 minutes talking to a person face-to-face. 700 billion minutes are costing us 350 billion minutes of face time. And all of this for something we were living very well without just a few years ago.

This all begs the question: what are we actually doing with our Facebook time? Is what we do there significant enough that it merits the time we dedicate to it? What are we accomplishing with all of those minutes? What do you accomplish with your share of those 700 billion minutes?

A while back I suggested that we might be able to tell what our idols are by looking in our pockets and seeing what we need to have with us all the time. We can also tell what our idols are by seeing where we are spending our minutes and our days. There is clearly something about Facebook that has captivated us, something about it that has drawn us in. For many of us, it is now the place where we live our lives—18,000 of those life times every month.

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Thursday, January 13, 2011

( True Freedom? @ 5:12 PM )

One re-post of an article from: http://theresurgence.com/2011/01/12/freedom-from-fear

So what's the Christian understand of freedom? Read on, especially on the 5 points and also on how Christian find obedience hard, essentially, that is driven by fear!


We cannot underestimate the importance of freedom in our lives. Freedom is one of the top reasons Jesus came to earth: “For freedom Christ has set us free...” (Galatians 5:1).

But what does freedom mean?

What freedom isn't

  • The ability to do what we want. This certainly would be freeing, but God is not calling us to do whatever we want. We can’t escape his moral law and somehow think there won’t be consequences.
  • The ability to do as we ought. We are now free to do the things we were created to do. But this definition still lacks because we are gold mixed with impurities. Yes, we have the power to do as we ought, but we don’t ALWAYS do right because sin is still residing in us.
  • An emotional expression during the music portion of a worship service. Freedom in this definition is raising hands, waving a flag, or singing loud. While I applaud anyone who can be uninhibited when the congregation is singing, this is a silly definition of freedom — not very compelling.

True freedom



Freedom is no longer having to obey fear; fear is no longer our master. We are uninhibited to be bold, to step out in faith, to risk. Irreligion produces fear because the weight of guilt and having to trust in yourself is too much for our fragile souls. Religion produces fear because we are afraid we haven’t done everything right; that the slightest error may restrain the hand of God’s blessing.

Enslaved by fear

Christ has set us free from fear. The importance of this cannot be overstated because fear is our biggest slave master; and here are our top 5 greatest fears (adapted from Marcus Buckingham):

  1. The Fear of Death — we have a need for security
  2. The Fear of Being Alone — we have a need for community
  3. The Fear of the Future — we have a need for clarity
  4. The Fear of Chaos — we have a need for authority
  5. The Fear of Insignificance — we have a need for respect.
“Religion produces fear because we are afraid we haven’t done everything right; that the slightest error may restrain the hand of God’s blessing. ”

Think of how these fears guide our life! Our hearts respond to every one of these fears in different ways, and each individual responds to one fear more than others (for instance, I am more afraid of insignificance than I am of death). Our response is often driven by unbelief, which leads to captivity.

Fear in the every day

Some of us are so afraid of death we become overly obsessed about health, germs, and safety, consequently choosing who we will help based on security and not based on love.

Others of us are so afraid of insignificance any criticism feels like an attack and we lose relationships when people challenge us.

Jesus bought our freedom

Redemption from this captivity is part of Jesus’ main work. If we examine those five fears with the eyes of faith, we can see Jesus is the answer to them all:

  1. He is our security, even in death, because Jesus took away condemnation in death.
  2. He is our community — he promises never to leave us or forsake us (Hebrews 13:5)
  3. He is our future — he controls the future and has prepared a place for us
  4. He is our authority — all authority on heaven and earth is his (Matthew 28:18). He is accomplishing all things according to his plan.
  5. He is our significance — Jesus alone validates and justifies our life.

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Wednesday, January 12, 2011

( Repentence @ 2:15 AM )

Hi all, a post on repentence.

Q. What is repentance unto life?

A. Repentance unto life is a saving grace, whereby a sinner, out of a true sense of his sin and apprehension of the mercy of God in Christ, doth, with grief and hatred of his sin, turn from it unto God, with full purpose of and endeavor after new obedience.

The Westminster Shorter Catechism, #87.

Two observations:

One, the motive for repentance is not only sorrow for sin but also a sense of the mercy of God in Christ. We have zero motivation to repent unless we see the mercy of God awaiting us. Not the slap of God but the embrace of God. Repentance is not just turning from sin; it is also turning to God with a bright hope in his mercy.

Two, the outcome of repentance is not a restored status quo, getting back to “normal,” getting back to where we were before we sinned. The outcome is new obedience, unprecedented obedience, perhaps unheard-of obedience. Newness of life.

True repentance is hope-inspired and newness-creating.

Taken from: http://thegospelcoalition.org/blogs/rayortlund/2011/01/04/what-is-true-repentance/


One little thing i might add, repentance is that which we have to / will do everyday of our lives till the day we die or when Jesus returns. So don't give up when you see yourself failing, we will only stop sinning when Jesus removes our sin totally from us.

It is not sinning that ruins men, but sinning and not repenting, falling and not getting up again. - Matthew Henry

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Saturday, January 8, 2011

( Sheeps @ 12:26 AM )

Hi, came across this interesting article that i thought would be good for me to share with all of you. Enjoy!

Sheep: "This time it's personal"

Throughout Scripture, sinners in general, and God’s people in particular, are described as sheep. And those God sends to lead them are equally frequently called shepherds. Today we will look at the character of the sheep, and tomorrow at the character of the shepherd. We start with the sheep because the key to leading as a shepherd is in understanding the nature of sheep.

I pastored for 12 years in the Scottish Highlands. During that time, I was surrounded by sheep: sheep on the roads, sheep on the mountains, sheep on the beeches, sheep in my yard. O, yes, and sometimes sheep in the shepherds' fields. My study on the Isle of Lewis was 12 inches away from a field full of sheep. Sometimes at night I would look up from my computer and see many pairs of luminous green eyes staring at me through my window! I got to know sheep pretty well. What did I learn?

1. Sheep are foolish

I don’t know what sheep would score in an animal IQ, but I think they would be close to the bottom of the scale. They seem to only know how to do one thing well – eat grass (and produce more grass-eating sheep).

It's possible to know little, yet not be foolish; but not if you are a sheep. They are so irrational. You watch them as they pause in front of a stream. They know they can’t jump it or swim it. So what do they do? They jump in anyway!

2. Sheep are slow to learn
Every shepherd will tell you countless stories about how sheep can be taught a very painful lesson, and yet fail to learn the painful lesson. A sheep may get caught in barbed wire trying to break through a fence. And the next day it will try it again, and again,…

3. Sheep are unattractive
Some animals may not be very bright, but make up for it with grace and elegance in their movement and actions. But sheep are so awkward, so lacking in agility and dignity. Although some shepherds may tell you differently, to most outside observers sheep are dirty, smelly, and ugly.

4. Sheep are demanding
Ever watch a lamb suckle its mother? Almost as soon as it is born, it is violently sucking its mother’s udders. And that insatiable demand never leaves them. They demand grass, grass, and more grass; day after day, and night after night. (Do they ever sleep?) And when snow is on the ground, they aggressively demand food from the shepherd. Just listen to them bleat if their troughs are empty even for a short time. And watch the life-or-death stampede when the shepherd appears.

5. Sheep are stubborn
Have you ever tried to move a sheep? It’s like trying to move an elephant. Ever watched a shepherd try to manoeuvre a sheep into a fold or a dip-tank. It’s like trying to wrestle with a devil. Half a dozen sheep invaded my garden once. I thought it would be easy to hustle them out the wide gate again. But it was as if an electric shield (visible only to sheep) stretched across the gap. I could get them to go anywhere and everywhere, but through that gate.

6. Sheep are strong
I’ve watched the most macho of men beaten by sheep. You look at their skinny “arms” and “legs” and think “easy.” Next thing you are flat on your back or face down in the dirt. I’ve been flattened by running sheep. It was like getting run over by a tank.

7. Sheep are straying
Perhaps the main reason Scripture chooses sheep to characterize us, more than any other animal, is because of its well-deserved reputation for straying (Isa. 53:6) and getting lost (Lk. 15:3-7). So many times I was out in the middle of nowhere when I would come across a sheep – miles from anyone and anything - and totally unconcerned. I would look up on a cliff and there was a sheep out on a lethal ledge. Other times, when fishing miles from anywhere, I would come across ditches and bogs with the decaying remains of a wandering sheep, and I’d think, “How did that get out here?”

8. Sheep are unpredictable
If you travel along the roads of the Scottish Highlands you will soon learn to expect the unexpected. You look ahead on a quiet piece of long straight road with no cars. You spy sheep in the distance on the side of the road. They watch you driving along towards them. Hundreds of yards pass. You are almost level. Well, they aren’t going to cross the road now, are they? Screeeeeech! Well, what do you know!

9. Sheep are copycats
OK, bit of a mix of metaphors here, but I think you get my point. When one sheep decides to start running, they all decide to start running. If you were able to ask one, “Why did you start running?” it would say, “Well, because he started running.” The next would say the same. And the next one. And when you got to the last sheep he would just say, “I dunno.”

10. Sheep are restless
It always puzzled me how little sheep slept. I would be in my study at midnight, look out, and there they were still eating grass. And no matter what time I arose in the morning – 3am or 5am – they would still be eating grass.

Other times, there would be a beautiful summer evening when everything was still and quiet and you would come across a field full of sprinting sheep (usually due to the Scottish midges – look it up on Google).

I once heard that for sheep to lie down they need freedom from fear, freedom from friction with others, freedom from hunger, and freedom from pests and parasites. From what I’ve seen, that combination is very rare.

11. Sheep are dependent
Some animals can cope and thrive without any close supervision. Not sheep. They are very dependent on their shepherd. They cannot live without him (or her).

12. Sheep are the same everywhere
I’ve been in a number of different countries in my life and enjoyed the many cultural differences. But sheep are the one constant - in character if not in looks. The American sheep is the same as the African sheep (see 1-11 above), which is the same as the Asian sheep, which is the same as...

The shepherd is a sheep
Well, of course, this is not a zoology lecture, nor an agricultural seminar. The sheep metaphor reveals the nature of the sinner, even the saved sinner, and hence the difficulty of the task facing the shepherd.

And the greatest difficulty of all stems from the fact that the shepherd is also a sheep! It might be easy for pastors to read this post and say, "Hey that sounds like my congregation!" But it also sounds uncomfortably too much like you (and me) as well doesn't it!

So how does a sheep-like-shepherd shepherd sheep?

That's one for tomorrow.


Taken from: http://headhearthand.posterous.com/sheep-this-time-its-personal

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